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What do you say when you realize ya boy is banging your ex-girl? I guess you don’t say anything, you just cut them both off.

Or at least that’s what I decided to do when I realized I was finding myself in a scenario like that a couple of months ago. However, some diconnection processes are harder than others. Especially when the girl is somone that fulfills a lot of needs in your friendship with her. I always took on the Dog Pound philosophy of never letting cheeks come between me and a homeboy. I came to realize abruptly that there are one or two small exceptions to the “Bitches Ain’t Shit” rule. I realize how women can operate when scorned, regardless of whether the relationship failure was their fault or not. If you want to know what kind of behavior that is, just ask any man who goes to court for child support. On one hand, I feel like giving dude the benefit of the doubt on the strength of knowing how dudes think with their penises. Then the realistc side of me asks the question, “Have I ever slept with or even flirted with a homeboy’s girl.” And the answer to that question is “ABSOLUTELY NOT!” I consider myself to be a loyal friend. I don’t know if that’s a Taurus trait since I don’t really follow the zodiac thing but in all honesty, when I’ve had a current or ex girl of a friend play the flirt game with me, I’ve consistently told them to get the fuck out of my face. I guess the confusion I’m having today is whether or not to forgive the two people in my life who’s shown a major lack of consideration and respect in that regard. And I don’t mean forgiveness for them. I mean forgiveness for me, so I can live a long and healthy life. *sigh* People never seem to amaze me…